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The Secret to Getting a Man and Staying in Love
Stop Depriving Yourself
Get a Man Who Will Call You Out . . . With Love
Why Writers Are Unhappy People–And What I Intend to Do About It
3 Signs You’re Headed for a Spiritual Tsunami
What Does Enough Mean to You?
Can I Contact My Guy Who Doesn’t Know What He Wants?
Your Confused Boyfriend Will Come Back
What to do if you always feel jealous and insecure in relationships
What to do if your boyfriend doesn’t buy you gifts or take you on dates
How to be a good helpmate to your boyfriend or husband
Should I leave my rude and crude boyfriend?
My Boyfriend the Vampire
 
Black women should do what we want; go to grad school, date a white guy, date a foreign guy, marry or not, start a business, learn Chinese. But we should make these knowing their are consequences to our actions. There are consequences to sex, marriage kids, dating non-black men., some good, some challenging. We shouln’t need to demean other women to do live our lives well.
It seems you seem to thing ‘Feminists’ advise women to nt be be determined to keep marriages together. Where did you get that information? As a 27 year old engaged woman, I find many black women’s (and too many younger women in general) blind rejection of feminism disheartening. You don’t have to agree with the many tenets of feminism and you don’t have to use the term to self-identify, but rejecting feminism all out seems presumptive to me. I have never been pregnant but I sure am grateful abortion is legal and the insurance company covers my IUD and my birth control pills. I am glad someone is paying attention to pay disparities and other issues of concern to women, because these issues affect women, and I am a woman. If fact, because black women lack white privilege and class privilege (I grew up working class), we deal with the effects of gender even more often. Research what groups of women have the highest rates of teen pregnancy, rape and domestic violence and then tell me that black women should eschew feminism and all its tenets.
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